Safety

Safe from the first hello.

Verified people, human review and tools that keep you in control — from the first introduction to the first date.

Identity verification

Every member verifies their identity before they can send an invitation or say yes. This keeps fake profiles, catfishing and bots away from you.

  • Official ID document check
  • Selfie video and liveness check
  • Everyone is at least 18
  • Documents never shown to other members

Photo and video checks

Every photo and video is checked when it's uploaded, to keep inappropriate content off kejn.

  • Automated image analysis
  • Human review of anything flagged
  • No nudity, sexual or violent content

Kind conversations

Small, human touches that keep invitations and conversations respectful.

  • A gentle “Are you sure?” before hurtful words are sent
  • No contact details in invitation notes until it's mutual
  • Photos sent to you stay blurred until you tap

Privacy & encryption

Your data is protected, and you stay in control of it.

  • Encrypted connections for everything you send
  • Secure data storage
  • Built for Swiss and EU data protection law
  • Your data on request, deletion at any time

Block & close kindly

You decide who can reach you. Block anyone at any time, or close a conversation kindly.

Block

When you block someone, they can no longer see your profile, message you, or be introduced to you. They won't be told that you blocked them.

Close kindly

Close a conversation with one tap and an optional kind message. It ends for both of you and frees up the place — no ghosting needed.

Reports, reviewed by people

People on our team review every report and act to keep the community safe.

  1. Report in a few taps

    From any profile or conversation, and block at the same time if you like.

  2. A person looks at it

    We aim to review every report within 24 hours — urgent ones first.

  3. We act

    From a warning to a permanent ban. The person is never told who reported them.

Learn how to stay safe while dating

Read the safety tips